To 21 Years
My relationship with my partner is officially old enough to drink. While I’m not amazed that we’ve been together this long as I always thought we would stay together, I am amazed that our lives have managed to change so much yet stay the same this past year. Early last year my partner started to…
On Getting Unstuck
As an author who has been struggling this year to write due to life chaos, I think I have found (re-found?) the key to unstuck myself. This panacea is two-fold, and a good chunk of you are absolutely going to hate the answer I’m about to give. The key to getting unstuck is time and…
My Dog’s Experience with Radiation
I know this isn’t my usual fare as a queer author, but when we decided that Katie would need radiation therapy to treat the remaining cancer on her nose, it was so hard to find firsthand experiences of what it was like. It’s hard to make an educated decision on how best to treat your…
