I am never sure how many people know I have anxiety. I am a class A worrier, dweller, and moment-reliver. Last week was my first full week of graduate classes, and midway through the week, I sat and cried when I got home. Sometimes I wonder what has happened to me. I wasn’t always such an emotional person, but honestly, sitting down and having a good cry is better than bottling up until you explode or internalizing your misery.
I am not like most of my family. The idea of working in an office for the rest of my life is repellant even if I do not mind the place I currently work and enjoy the company of the people who work there. I just want more than that. For my entire life, school has been a factor that validated who I was. I was a (mostly) diligent student who got good grades. School has been there to give me a ruler to measure myself against and prove my worth, and this is probably what pulls me toward the world of academia. My family went through the motions of school and seemed to enjoy the social aspects more than anything they actually learned, but because I typically had few friends, my focus was on homework and my classes. In my family, I was first one to go to college for four years and actually earn a degree, and I did it because I loved my classes for the most part and my professors. I had a drive and my mentor nurtured that by giving me the confidence to write more and actually participate in literary conferences when most undergrads didn’t. Toward the end of my time in college, I realized I wanted to be an English professor, but my family has not exactly been supportive of my endeavors. Continue reading